🏳️‍⚧️ Harnesses for Every Body. FTM & Trans Guide

At Cheeky Boy Harness, I believe everyone deserves to feel confident in what they wear.

For many FTM and trans masculine people, a harness is more than just a fashion accessory. It can be a way to express your identity, celebrate your style, feel more at home in your body, or simply wear something that makes you feel good.

Whether you're buying your very first harness or adding to your collection, my goal is simple: to create something that fits your body—not the other way around.

Harnesses Are for Everyone

Harnesses have become a huge part of LGBTQ+ fashion, Pride celebrations, festivals and nightlife, but there are no rules about who can wear one.

Whether you're trans, cis, non-binary or anywhere else on the gender spectrum, the right harness should make you feel comfortable, confident and authentically yourself.

Style has no labels.

Finding the Right Style

Every harness creates a different look.

Chest Harness

A chest harness frames the upper body, drawing attention to the chest and shoulders. It's one of the most versatile styles and looks great on its own or layered over clothing.

Body Harness

A body harness wraps around both the chest and waist, creating extra structure and definition. Many people enjoy this style because it enhances the shape of the torso while remaining comfortable to wear.

Lower Chest Strap Styles

For some FTM and trans masculine people, harnesses with a lower chest strap can naturally sit across or below top surgery scars, depending on body shape and the design of the harness.

Some people choose to proudly show their scars as part of their journey, while others prefer a little more coverage. Neither choice is right or wrong—it's simply about wearing what makes you feel most comfortable.

One of my most popular harness designs includes a removable lower chest strap, giving you the freedom to change the look whenever you like. Wear it with the lower strap attached if you like the way it frames your chest, or remove it completely for a more open, minimalist style.

Because every Cheeky Boy Harness is handmade and fully adjustable, you can also fine-tune the position of the straps to suit your own body, your personal style and however much or little coverage you'd like.

Why Made-to-Measure Matters

One of the biggest frustrations with mass-produced harnesses is that they're usually made in standard sizes such as Small, Medium and Large.

The reality is that bodies don't come in standard sizes.

Some FTM and trans masculine people may have narrower shoulders, a smaller chest measurement or different proportions that make off-the-shelf sizing difficult. Others may have broader shoulders, a muscular build or simply proportions that don't match generic size charts comfortably.

That's why every Cheeky Boy Harness is handmade to your own measurements.

Instead of asking your body to fit a size chart, I build the harness to fit you.

A made-to-measure harness helps:

• Sit comfortably in the correct position
• Create cleaner, more balanced proportions
• Improve comfort during longer wear
• Allow the straps to sit exactly where you want them

Whether you'd like a harness to frame your chest, sit comfortably over a binder or naturally provide more or less coverage of top surgery scars, made-to-measure sizing makes a real difference.

Wearing a Harness With a Binder

Many people choose to wear their harness over a chest binder.

If you do:

• Make sure the harness doesn't create additional compression.
• Ensure you can breathe and move comfortably.
• Never use a harness instead of a properly fitted binder.

Comfort and safety should always come first.

Why Elastic Harnesses Are So Comfortable

Elastic harnesses combine style with flexibility.

Unlike more rigid materials, elastic moves naturally with your body while maintaining its shape.

Many people love them because they're:

Comfortable for longer periods of wear

• Lightweight
• Adjustable
• Flexible when moving
• Easy to layer over clothing or wear directly against the skin

Whether you're heading to Pride, a festival, a club night or simply expressing your own style, comfort makes all the difference.

Love Showing Off Your Sides?

Everyone has their own idea of what makes them feel confident. Some people prefer a more structured, full-coverage look, while others like to show a little more skin.

That's why I also offer my Half & Half Harness design.

Instead of wrapping all the way around your torso, the Half & Half design leaves one side open, creating a bold, asymmetrical look that naturally shows off your waist and side profile. It's a popular choice for Pride, festivals, club nights or anyone who loves a more minimalist style.

Like all Cheeky Boy Harness designs, it's handmade to your exact measurements, so it sits comfortably and flatters your unique body shape.

Whether you're looking for maximum coverage, a removable lower chest strap, or a design that proudly shows off your sides, there's no right or wrong choice—only the style that makes you feel your most confident.

Flat Pouch Jockstrap Options

Everyone has their own preferences when it comes to fit, comfort and style.

While some people prefer a traditional front pouch, others are looking for a flatter silhouette.

That's why every Cheeky Boy Harness jockstrap is also available with a flat pouch option, in either breathable mesh or solid fabric.

Whether you're looking for a smoother appearance under clothing, a particular aesthetic or simply a design that feels right for you, you can choose the option that best suits your body and your style.

Like all of my products, every jockstrap is handmade to order and can be customised to suit your preferences.

Styling Ideas

Harnesses can be styled in countless ways.

• Some popular combinations include:
• Open shirts
• Mesh tops
• Denim jackets
• Oversized shirts
• Jeans
• Shorts
• Pride outfits
• Festival looks
• Clubwear

Whether you prefer classic black, bold neon colours or UV-reactive elastic, there isn't a right or wrong way to wear a harness.

Wear what makes you feel like yourself.

A Safe and Inclusive Space

At Cheeky Boy Harness, I want everyone to feel welcome.

I know that every customer's story is different, and everyone's journey is personal. Whether you're at the beginning of your transition, years into it, or simply looking for a harness that fits your body comfortably, you'll always be treated with kindness, respect and without judgement.

If you have questions about sizing, strap placement, flat pouch options or simply aren't sure which style would suit you best, you're always welcome to get in touch.

You're never expected to explain more than you're comfortable sharing. I'll simply listen to what you're looking for and help you choose or create a harness that works for your body and your personal style.

As a small handmade business, you'll always be speaking directly with the person making your harness. Together, we can tailor every detail to create something that's uniquely yours.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can trans men wear harnesses?

Absolutely. Harnesses are for everyone, regardless of gender identity.

Will a harness cover top surgery scars?

It depends on the style of the harness, where the straps sit and your individual body shape. Some lower chest strap styles naturally provide more coverage, while other styles leave scars more visible. Many people choose one style or the other based entirely on personal preference.

Can I wear a harness with a binder?

Yes, provided both fit comfortably and don't create excessive compression.

How tight should a harness be?

A harness should feel secure without digging into your skin or restricting your breathing. You should be able to move naturally and comfortably while wearing it.

Do you make custom-sized harnesses?

Yes. Every Cheeky Boy Harness is handmade to your exact measurements, ensuring a comfortable fit that's designed specifically for your body rather than a generic size chart.

Every Journey Is Different

There is no "right" way to look, no "right" stage to be at, and no "right" body shape.

Whether you're celebrating your scars, choosing a style that offers a little more coverage, looking for a flat pouch jockstrap or simply searching for a harness that finally fits properly, you deserve clothing that helps you feel confident.

Every Cheeky Boy Harness is handmade with care, made to measure and created with inclusivity at its heart.

Whatever stage of your journey you're on, I'd be honoured to make something that's uniquely yours.

Because the best harness isn't the one that fits a size chart...

It's the one that fits you. 🏳️⚧️